I’m a 30-year-old woman in a long-term polyamorous relationship by having a guy that is stellar. Our relationship started as exceedingly Dom/sub, beside me being the sub. My boyfriend and I also started super casually but quickly became partners that are serious. Now, six years later on, I find having sex that is kinky him challenging. We now have an extremely deep, relationship, so my feelings get harmed as soon as we take part in bondage and kink play. This is certainly specially problematic because we still enjoy BDSM with folks I’m maybe not dating. Essentially, if I’m maybe not in deep love with some body, it does not harm my emotions whenever I am beaten by them and humiliate me personally. My boyfriend seems slighted, but i simply don’t understand what to accomplish. Each and every time we perform rough—the same manner we had played for years—my feelings get harmed.